Because of this, they don’t tend to get caught up in peer pressure or many other teenage struggles as easily as other types do. Now there are more bullies, there is more pressure to compromise their values, and there is more backstabbing and fakery. You’re too bossy!” retorts the other. They may become irritable, overwhelmed, and increasingly withdrawn as the pressure from their mounting to-do list cages them in. Lastly, ISFPs can struggle with keeping up with deadlines or managing money. They may also struggle with sticking to their values when it comes at the cost of appearing like a “goody goody”. Many ESFPs are interested in psychology or making a difference in the world of people. The INFJ may go from being a bookworm one week to getting piercings and going bungee jumping the next. Young ISFPs also struggle with the sometimes shallow relationships in high school. When they are asked to write something personal without being ‘exposed’ in front of the class, they are happy to share their hopes, dreams and fears on paper. However, like most people in their teens, they still have a lot to learn and experience. On the one hand, they tend to be very direct and honest. Growing up in environments that stifle their natural curiosity and skepticism can drive young ENFPs crazy and can cause them to feel misunderstood and unable to be their true selves. They don’t want to feel pressured and they don’t like it when parents or teachers feel they know what’s best for them. 35 quotes have been tagged as hopes-and-dreams: Lailah Gifty ... he told his hopes, with a kind of satisfaction, sink like a corpse dropped into the river. They tend to want to discuss philosophical interests and big-picture plans and visions and they may feel bored with the focus on boys, style, and popularity. ISTJs can be risk-takers and innovators (there are many great ISTJ entrepreneurs like Jeff Bezos or Ingvar Kamprad), but in the teen  years when personal experience is so relied upon, venturing into unknown territory can be a special challenge for the ISTJ. They also tend to give emotionally to their friends to a very extreme degree. They don’t see why an institution’s perspective of their competence is so important when they are more than competent at the practical and technical pursuits they tend to enjoy. This inevitably leaves them worn out and can increase their desire for alone time at home. Young ENTJs are natural entrepreneurs and leaders and have no problem standing out from the crowd and defying traditional beliefs or norms. Some INTJs who go through life continuously thinking they know everything have difficulties in relationships and friendships later on. Try to think through the rules you have and discern which ones are mandatory and which ones aren’t especially important. It's a big question, but we found out. 7 hopes and dreams for 2019 January is the time of year where you reflect on the past, and make plans for the future. It’s important for parents to let teen INTJs know how to handle situations that involve drugs or sex. This whole experience can be a torment for them and they may need extra reassurance from parents and good friends that it’s okay to just “be themselves” or to walk away from damaging relationships. Another struggle that ESFJs often face is peer pressure. At home, INFJ teens tend to draw inward to focus on who they are as a person outside of their environment and upbringing. © 2020 Psychology Junkie. The problem with this is that they tend to take on more than they have time to handle. Question, but we found out dreams as ‘aspirations’ leisure activity “ Playing sports ” absorb information. 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